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The Power We Create in Others, with Corina Neagu
She has built a career of more than 20 years in a field where people, leadership and culture shape the success of every organization: Human Resources.
Corina Neagu is a respected HR leader, mentor and coach, known for her direct approach to leadership, her belief in human potential and her commitment to helping people find the courage to claim their place.
Throughout her career, she has worked across teams, organizations and classrooms, learning that true leadership is not about having power over others, but about creating the conditions for people to grow, speak up and make an impact.
In this interview for Strong Women, Corina reflects on power, ambition, resilience and the courage to tell the truth, even when it comes at a cost.
More than a conversation about HR, this is a conversation about character and the belief that real power is measured by the possibilities we create for others.
1. What truly drives you every day beyond success and recognition?
Unfinished business.
I keep meeting people - in teams, in coaching rooms, in classrooms, operating at a fraction of what they're capable of, not because they lack ability but because no one ever gave them permission. I can't unsee it.
Recognition is pleasant and it fades by Thursday. What doesn't fade is watching someone say a sentence out loud they'd been swallowing for years.
That's the only thing I've never gotten bored of.
2. What does it truly mean to be a powerful woman today and how is that different from simply being strong?
Strength is what we praise in a woman who is still absorbing the cost alone. It's endurance inside conditions someone else set.
Power is when she stops absorbing and starts setting - not volume, not hardness, but the ability to change the terms: who is in the room, what gets discussed, what happens next.
Strength keeps you standing.
Power means fewer women have to be that strong. That's the difference that matters.
3. What is a value you have never compromised, even when it cost you something important?
Telling the truth to the person paying me.
I have told a board that the problem was them, not the team, and lost the contract in the same meeting. It cost real money and a relationship I valued.
But my entire work rests on people believing what I say when it's inconvenient. The moment I trade that for a contract, I'm selling something I no longer have.
I've lost clients. I've never lost the ability to be believed.
4. What has sustained you in your most difficult moments internally, not externally?
Not optimism. Optimism was unreliable and I stopped depending on it.
What held was smaller and less impressive: an early walk, a notebook, one person I could call without performing.
And a rule - I refused to lie to myself about the size of the problem. Denial felt like relief for a day and cost me a month.
Naming things exactly as they were was brutal, and it was the only thing that kept me able to act.
5. Looking back, who shaped you more in critical moments: a man or a woman, and how?
Both, differently.
A woman shaped me through permission: she treated my ambition as ordinary rather than surprising, and I stopped apologizing for it.
A man shaped me through underestimation - he explained to me, kindly, what I would not be able to do.
I've since built most of it. I don't think he meant to be a turning point.
Some people teach you the room's rules by assuming you can't read them.
6. What mindset shift is essential for young girls who want to become truly powerful women?
Stop preparing to be chosen.
Girls are trained to accumulate - grades, skills, approval and to wait for someone to notice and hand them a place. Competence is necessary, and it is not a delivery mechanism. No one is coming with the invitation.
The shift is from "am I ready?" to "I'm taking this, and I'll be ready by the time it matters."
Being liked is pleasant. It is not a strategy, and it is usually a tax.
7. What is the most defining lesson you’ve learned specifically as a woman navigating power?
That excellence is often used to keep you where you are, not to move you up.
The better I performed in a role, the more indispensable I became in it - and indispensable is a beautiful word for stuck.
Men around me were promoted on trajectory, I was retained on reliability.
The lesson: doing the work is not the same as claiming the work. I had to learn to say what I'd built, out loud, to the person who decides.
8. How do you face self-doubt or fear when the stakes are high and what should other women understand about those moments?
My hands still go cold.
What changed is that I stopped waiting for the fear to leave before I moved - it doesn't, and waiting only gives it time to organize. Fear tends to be proportional to how much something matters, so I read it as information, not as a verdict.
What women should understand is that the people who look certain up there are not less afraid. They're just further into the sentence.
9. If you could offer one piece of advice to help Strong Women grow into a truly impactful international initiative, what would it be?
Decide what it is for, not only who it's for.
Inspiration scales fast and plateaus fast - you fill rooms, everyone leaves moved, nothing changes by Monday.
Choose one measurable outcome - women placed, funded, promoted, mentored and let that be what you're judged on. And define who it isn't for.
Initiatives that try to include everyone become a stage. The ones that endure become infrastructure someone can actually stand on.
10. When your journey is complete, how do you want your power, not just your success to be remembered?
I'd rather not be remembered as impressive.
Impressive is a closed loop and it ends with me. I want the evidence to be indirect - women who never met me holding rooms they'd once have been talked out of, saying things I never taught them.
If people say "she was powerful," fine. If they say "things got easier after her, and we're not entirely sure why" - that's the one.
Power that needs crediting isn't finished working.

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